May 5, 2021

Love, Sex and ADHD

Research on ADHD has extensively explored various aspects of the condition, yet surprisingly little attention has been devoted to its impact on romantic relationships. Despite over 25,000 articles on ADHD listed in PubMed, only a small number examine topics such as love, sex, and relationship dynamics.

One study by Brunner and colleagues analyzed ADHD symptoms and romantic relationship quality in 189 college students. The findings indicated that students with high levels of hyperactivity-impulsivity and inattentiveness reported lower relationship quality compared to peers with fewer ADHD symptoms. Similarly, a study of 497 college students revealed that ADHD symptoms were linked to the use of maladaptive coping strategies in relationships, resulting in reduced romantic satisfaction.

In research involving young adults, ADHD symptoms were associated with greater negativity and reduced positivity during conflict resolution tasks within romantic partnerships. Higher levels of ADHD symptoms were predictive of lower relationship satisfaction. However, couples where the ADHD partner displayed only inattentive symptoms experienced fewer relational challenges, suggesting that the severity and type of symptoms significantly influence outcomes.

Regarding sexual behavior, studies highlight distinct patterns among individuals with ADHD. Adolescents with ADHD, regardless of gender, report nearly double the number of lifetime sexual partners compared to their non-ADHD peers. These findings align with research by Barkley and colleagues, who observed that ADHD predicted earlier sexual activity and parenthood. Similarly, Flory and colleagues, in a retrospective study, found that childhood ADHD was associated with earlier sexual initiation, more sexual partners, casual relationships, and unintended pregnancies.

A broader study of over 1,000 adults found that ADHD was associated with less stability in romantic relationships, difficulty providing emotional support, higher rates of sexual dysfunction, and increased divorce rates.

Although the body of research on ADHD and romantic relationships is relatively small, it consistently highlights the significant impact of ADHD on love, sex, and relational dynamics, often presenting unique challenges for those affected.

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Study Finds That ADHD Stimulants Have Negligible Effect on Adult Height

Background:

One of the more persistent concerns among parents of children with ADHD is whether stimulant medications will stunt their child's growth. A large Israeli cohort study now offers some of the most rigorous reassurance to date, and its methodology sets it apart from earlier research. 

The question has long been complicated by a more fundamental uncertainty: do growth differences in children with ADHD stem from the condition itself, from stimulant treatment, or from factors present before any medication is ever prescribed? Without a clear answer, clinicians and families have faced a genuine dilemma when weighing the benefits of stimulant therapy against potential long-term physical costs. 

Most previous studies compounded this difficulty by comparing group-average heights, which ignores the crucial variable of genetic potential. A child who is short relative to the general population may simply have short parents. Failing to account for this introduces systematic bias and can make medications appear more harmful than they are. 

The Study:

The Israeli research team addressed this directly. Using health records from a nationwide provider, they assembled a retrospective cohort of children born between 1995 and 2003, following them through 2023. This amount of time was long enough for all participants to have reached adult stature (defined as 17 or older for females, 19 or older for males). Their sample included 5,671 children with untreated ADHD, 11,846 who received stimulant treatment, and 47,258 non-ADHD controls. Children who took stimulants for only one to two months, or who had chronic medical conditions requiring long-term medication, were excluded to avoid confounding the results. 

Crucially, adult height was evaluated not against population norms but against each individual's expected height, calculated from parental heights using the Tanner-Goldstein-Whitehouse method, a standard approach for estimating genetic height potential via mid-parental height. 

When the researchers compared adult heights across the three groups using analysis of variance (ANOVA), they did find statistically significant differences. But statistical significance, particularly in studies with tens of thousands of participants, does not automatically translate into clinical significance. The effect sizes were consistently very small, and the absolute differences were under one centimeter, which is a margin considered clinically negligible. 

Their conclusion is measured but clear: after accounting for genetic growth potential, neither an ADHD diagnosis nor stimulant treatment was associated with meaningful reductions in adult height. The findings, they argue, support prioritizing behavioral and functional outcomes when making treatment decisions, since the risk of clinically significant height loss appears to be minimal. 

The Take-Away:

For families navigating ADHD treatment, the practical implication is significant: concerns about permanent growth suppression, while understandable, should not be the primary driver of whether or how long a child receives stimulant therapy. 

Meta-analysis: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Adult ADHD

A recent meta-analysis examined how well cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) improves not just symptoms, but everyday functioning and quality of life in adults with ADHD. 

The Background:

ADHD in adults affects far more than attention or impulsivity. It often disrupts key areas of life: 

  • Education: Adults with ADHD tend to have lower GPAs, use fewer effective study strategies, achieve less academically, and are more likely to drop out.  
  • Work: They are more likely to experience job instability, including underperformance, unemployment, being fired, or frequent job changes.  
  • Social life: They often report smaller social networks, fewer close relationships, greater loneliness, and difficulty maintaining friendships or intimacy. Importantly, stronger social networks can help buffer (reduce) the impact of ADHD symptoms on daily life.  
  • Quality of life: Overall well-being is typically lower, affecting not only individuals but also their families and close relationships.

These broad impacts highlight a key issue: reducing symptoms does not automatically translate into better day-to-day functioning. 

CBT is a structured, skills-based therapy that helps people: 

  • Identify and challenge unhelpful thought patterns  
  • Reduce avoidance behaviors  
  • Build practical strategies for managing time, organization, and other executive functions (the mental skills used to plan, focus, and follow through)  

While both medication (especially stimulants) and CBT improve core ADHD symptoms, CBT is particularly aimed at improving real-world functioning. 

The Study:

The researchers analyzed studies involving adults diagnosed with ADHD (or showing clinically significant symptoms). They included: 

  • Randomized controlled trials (RCTs): studies comparing CBT to another treatment or to no treatment  
  • Within-subject studies: studies measuring change in the same individuals before and after CBT  

They focused specifically on outcomes beyond symptoms: 

  • Occupational functioning (work performance)  
  • Global functional impairment (overall daily functioning)  
  • Social relationships  
  • Academic functioning  
  • Quality of life  

The Results:

1.  Strongest Effects: Occupational functioning
CBT showed consistently strong improvements in work-related functioning compared to control groups, both immediately after treatment and at follow-up. This was the most robust finding across domains. 

2. Moderate Improvement: Global Functional Impairment
CBT led to moderate improvements in overall daily functioning, with some evidence that gains persist over time. In studies tracking individuals over time, improvements were even stronger at follow-up. 

3. Modest Gains: Social Relationships
CBT produced small to moderate improvements in social functioning. Benefits were present both after treatment and at follow-up, but were less pronounced than in work-related outcomes. 

4. Limited Effects: Academic Functioning
There were moderate short-term gains when CBT was compared to control groups, but these did not persist at follow-up. Within-subject studies showed only small improvements overall. 

5. Modest and Inconsistent Effects: Quality of Life
Improvements in quality of life were small when compared to control groups and often did not last. However, studies tracking individuals over time showed moderate improvements, suggesting some benefit that may not always show up clearly in between-group comparisons. 

Overall, the findings suggest: 

  • CBT does improve real-world functioning, not just symptoms  
  • The strongest and most consistent benefits are in occupational (work) functioning  
  • Gains in social life, academics, and overall quality of life are more modest and variable  
  • Improvements in functioning do not always track directly with symptom reduction  

One notable nuance: CBT did not always outperform other active treatments (like medication or other therapies). This suggests that while CBT is effective, its benefits may partly overlap with broader therapeutic or support effects rather than relying on a single, unique mechanism. 

The Take-Away: 

CBT is a valuable, evidence-based treatment for adults with ADHD, especially for improving work functioning and overall daily life management. However, its impact on relationships, academic outcomes, and quality of life is more limited and less consistent, pointing to the need for more targeted or combined approaches in those areas. 

 

June 9, 2026

When ADHD and Epilepsy Overlap, Cognitive Impacts Add Up

The Background:

ADHD and epilepsy are the two most common neurological disorders in children and adolescents. Additionally, they appear as co-diagnoses more often than chance would predict. Roughly a quarter of children with epilepsy also have ADHD, and children with ADHD face a 2.5-times greater risk of developing epilepsy than their peers. 

Clinicians have long suspected that carrying both diagnoses compounds cognitive difficulties, but no rigorous quantitative review has mapped out exactly how much, or in what ways. This new meta-analysis now fills that gap. 

The Study:

The team pooled data from peer-reviewed studies that included children and adolescents diagnosed with both conditions alongside at least one comparison group: children with neither condition, children with epilepsy alone, or children with ADHD alone. To capture the breadth of thinking skills, they constructed a general intelligence factor drawing on six cognitive domains: 

  • Crystallized intelligence — accumulated knowledge and its application 
  • Fluid reasoning — tackling novel problems through logical thinking 
  • Working memory — holding and mentally manipulating information in the short term 
  • Processing speed — executing simple or well-practiced mental tasks quickly 
  • Reaction time — responding rapidly to basic stimuli 
  • Long-term memory and fluency — efficiently storing and later retrieving new information 

The Results:

Across eleven studies (995 participants), children and adolescents with both conditions scored moderately lower on general intelligence than those with epilepsy alone. The same pattern held across all six cognitive domains. Seven studies (785 participants) comparing the dual-diagnosis group with those who had ADHD alone found an equally consistent moderate deficit, replicated in every domain. 

The clearest signal emerged when researchers compared children and adolescents carrying both diagnoses to typically-developing peers. Seven studies covering 427 individuals revealed a substantially larger gap in general intelligence, with the effects of the two conditions appearing to be roughly additive, meaning the combined burden was approximately equal to the sum of each condition's individual impact. This pattern held across five of the six domains. 

The Interpretation:

The results come with meaningful caveats. Variability across individual studies was moderate in the first two comparisons and high in the third, reflecting real differences in how studies were designed, which populations they sampled, and how they measured cognition. While there was no sign of publication bias in the first group, it was not assessed in two of the three analyses. 

The authors describe “a widespread profile of cognitive dysfunction” in children and adolescents with both epilepsy and ADHD, while underscoring that the substantial variability between studies warrants caution in drawing overly precise conclusions. The findings nonetheless carry practical weight: children managing both conditions may need more intensive cognitive screening and support than current clinical practice routinely provides. 

June 3, 2026